I’ll admit, I definitely thought twice about signing up to an NSA sex dating website. It’s not the sort of thing you can do everyday, you know? Well, not if you’ve never done it before.
I am a thirty year old guy and I am a sex dater. I don’t have acne or braces on my teeth. I don’t wear glasses. I’m not ginger. I’m not overweight. I don’t have a funny laugh (I don’t think) and I don’t pick my toenails in bed. I’m a regular guy. In fact, I’m a hot guy. I know I’m hot because all the girls tell me I’m hot. And I work out. A lot.
I don’t really have time for a relationship. I work a lot of hours and I like to go to the gym in the evenings. I like Friday nights in bars with my boys, and I like a girl to fit in around my schedule, not the other way around.
I won the jackpot when I met Rebecca and I know I did. She’s a pretty cool chick. She doesn’t care when I want to watch the football instead of taking her out to a fancy restaurant. We have sex quite a lot but we don’t date. We don’t fight. We still screw other people.
We did try our hands at the dating game but that all ended about a year ago. She couldn’t handle my terrible sense of direction and I hated the way she spent money like it was going out of fashion. I left my underwear on her floor too often and she tripped over it once on the way to the bathroom. In fact, I’m pretty sure that was the night our relationship ended. We don’t work very well as a couple, you see? We’re great friends and we have a laugh and more than that, we have amazing sex. But that’s all there is to it.
I’ve met some pretty mental girls along the way. I’ve bumped into hot girls in bars and asked them back to mine for ‘no strings attached fun’. I;m almost one hundred percent sure I use those exact words too. At least fifty percent of them go crazy. They want my number and my last name. They want to become friends on Facebook. They want to know what I’m doing next Saturday night and whether or not I want to be their plus one for an evening event she has been invited to that her parents are going to be attending. Apparently, I’d look good in a tux.
I’ve met girls that don’t want to put out when I go track to their place, and I’ve had a lot of crossed wires. Apparently ‘no strings attached’ means something a little different to girls. They take it on as a challenge… Can they be the one to change us? Nine times out of ten, the answer is a resounding no.
The people you’d meet in the world of nsa sex dating are pretty similar to the people that you’d meet in ‘regular’ dating scenarios. There will be some crazy people and there will be some people that end up being good friends in your life. If you’re really lucky, like Rebecca and I, you’ll find someone that you can have great sex and a lot of fun with. Remember – just because the relationship didn’t work, doesn’t mean a no-strings-attached sex dating environment can’t arise out of it. You never know until you ask…