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Why Casual Sex Is More Tempting Than A Cinnabon

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Let’s face it – there is something about a night of really good, hot, casual sex that brings a sparkle to any girl’s eye. There is something so beautiful about climaxing time after time, riding a guy that’s so hot, you can barely believe you’re in bed with him, and knowing that you don’t need to have that awkward ‘meet the parents’ scenario three months from now… I’m a big fan of casual sex. Can you tell?

Dan, the other guy behind this blog, is the hottest guy I’ve ever set my eyes on. He knows it too. He’s not very good in relationships because he can’t really keep it in his pants, if you get my drift. To be fair, I’m not much better either, that’s why we decided to part ways after our one year relationship, and go back to casually dating each other again. So far, one year later, all is going well.

Now, he genuinely is the most beautiful creature. He’s got these abs that I just want to run my tongue around. He’s got that special ‘V’ at the bottom of his torso that makes me wonder what lies beneath the waist belt of his pants. He’s got the biggest baby blues that you can’t help to fall into…

The only problem with Dan is that he is also the thickest person I’ve ever met. I’ve told him this time and time again, and he even agrees with it. He has no sense of direction. He’s useless with money. He couldn’t ever support me if he tried. The only problem is the fact that we have really good sex. Out of this world sex. Sex that blows my mind. And once again, I repeat, he is genuinely the hottest guy I’ve ever met in my life.

Sexy woman soft booty, pantiesWe work so well together in the bedroom that I crave him more than any cinnabon. I crave him more than I crave candy and I like to eat candy… especially after sex! 😉

That’s why we decided to part ways and go back to just sleeping with each other a couple of times per week. I’m still free to date other people, in the hope of meeting the man of my dreams, and so is he – looking for that mother figure that he so desperately needs to keep him in check. I’ve told him he should try Cougar dating but he’s having none of it!

That’s the thing about casual sex – when you find the right casual sex partners to enjoy and delight with, everything is easy and breezy. The even better thing about casual sex is that more men are up for it than you first may have thought! Well, perhaps not what you thought. Men are pretty rampant. Every man I’ve ever casually dated has called me the best ‘non-girlfriend’ ever. Perhaps that’s why Dan wanted to keep hold of me! We actually met through and amazing adult dating web site called Foot Fetish Partners, which caters for those who have foot fetishes like Dan has. He loves my pretty feet and they get loads of attention in our foreplay!

But back to casual sex – it gives you everything you could ever ask for on a plate. You get to have the greatest of sexual experiences with the most beautiful people in the world and there’s no commitment. So even though your relationship with them didn’t work, you still have the opportunity to find ‘the one’… If that’s what you’re looking for, of course!

Why Adult Dating Is The Best Thing Since Sliced Bread

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Now don’t get me wrong – there is something about having a long term partner to cuddle at night and to give you a shoulder to cry on when life is bad that sometimes, a single girl desperately craves. That’s the thing about casual dating though… the thing that makes it better than sliced bread. You can still get that from a casual sex partner and I am testament to that.

If you’ve read around the blog, you’ll have probably found out about my story. I’m Rebecca, and the other writer behind the blog is Dan. We had a casual sex relationship for a year, then we dated for a year exclusively, then we realised it didn’t work and went back to casual sex again. That’s where we are at now, one year later.

We sleep together and we date other people. We see each other three times a week sometimes. Occasionally it’ll be more. Usually it’s two or three visits. I’ve never met his parents and he’s never met mine. I don’t know how much he earns, I don’t understand what he does for a living, I don’t know the state of his bank balance, and he doesn’t know any of that information about me. Occasionally he’ll stay the night and cuddle me to sleep, and I’ll be there to get on my knees and blow his troubles away… literally! 😉

People give adult dating a very bad name, mostly because they don’t know anything about it. Casual dating doesn’t mean sleeping with multiple people every week, racking up an enormous amount of sexual partners. Casual dating just means that you know you’re not really compatible with each other in the long term, but really good sex is something you don’t want to let go of. You are still free to find your respective happy-ever-after’s, and all round, everyone ends up being a winner. How can you really argue with that?

As long as you are both upfront right at the very beginning about what you are both looking for, you won’t have a problem. Dan and I made a deal right at the beginning of our ‘relationship’ – neither of us were looking for anything long-term. We were both newly out of fairly serious relationships and wanted to have a bit of fun. We met in a bar, had a one night stand, and found that we had some pretty damn good sex. I’m not his usual type and he’s definitely not mine but who cares? We don’t really see each other fully clothed and out of the bedroom!

So yeah – that’s why adult dating is the best thing since sliced bread… You get to eat your cake and eat it too!

If think that you are into casual sex dating or nsa sex dating there are some wonderful web sites to check out. We actually met through a foot fetish web site, but we’ve heard great things about www.lookingforsex.co.uk and lookingforsex.eu Both sites are great from what we understand, but if you check out the European version, there is some seriously hot totty from all over Europe. Damn, those Italian and Spanish girls are gorgeous! And many of them live in the UK, so the chances of hooking up are excellent.

Where No Strings Dating Is Headed In The Next Five Years

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What started as something that only the coolest guys could ever manage has become somewhat of a dating hobby. No strings dating – an idea too ‘out of this world’ for many guys. Could it be, however, that this new style of sex dating could be slowly becoming the ‘norm’?

I’m a perfect example of a successful no strings dater. I very rarely get the uncomfortable crying-girl situation, because I’ve got a handle on it. I successfully juggle a few girls. There’s Rebecca of course, but there’s also a few more. Some of them we talk about, some about we don’t. That’s the thing with the weird sex relationship we have – we don’t really care that much about what the other is doing.

When I first started dipping my toes into the world of adult sex four years ago, on a web site called casualsex.uk.com I had no real clue what I was doing. I basically closed my eyes and jumped in, filling out a quick membership form with my details and hastily uploading a fuzzy profile pic. I wouldn’t want anyone I knew to recognize me. You could never be too safe…. I had a girlfriend at the time. We were fighting a lot… You know how it goes guys, right?

I didn’t really know what I wanted but I knew sex was pretty high up on the list. Within a couple of hours of signing up, I had gotten talking to this girl called Sally who was a bit on the bigger side but promised me oral sex that I’d never forget. It would have been rude of me to turn that kind of offer down… so I didn’t. That night we met up in a local bar and she was right – her oral was out of this world. I’ll never forget her! 😉

It was a year later that I met Rebecca but in that time, I had racked up a pretty impressive number of girls and over the years, I noticed one thing. The people were getting ‘more normal’. Four years ago, there were a lot of nutters on the websites that I frequented. Last night I got talking to a 25 year old girl not far from where I lived who’d ex-fiance had cheated on, and just wanted a little something-something to see her through a lonely night. She was ‘normal’ – she didn’t cry, ask for my number, do anything too weird in bed, and didn’t look like a fish. She was just your average, run-of-the-mill, twenty-something girl.

The change in the caliber of these single women (or not so single) is refreshing. I’m finding that less and less chicks I meet are the crazy ones. I’m having more success. I’m definitely sleeping with more women. So with my last four years experience in mind, do you really want to know where no strings dating is headed in the next five years?


That’s right – it’s becoming the norm. It’s becoming something that all kids go through before they decide to settle down. Parents no longer from at their children for cheating on their so-called partners. It’s a “Tut, he’s young, what do you expect?” kind of situation these days. Do you see what I mean – it’s becoming normality.

Give it five years and I guarantee there will be more no strings dating websites out there than you could shake a stick at. Watch -you’ll see!