Let’s say you are a free thinking woman that feels empowered. She has a good job, has a good life, keeps good friends around her, and can afford good shoes. Why would you want to mess that up by throwing a bad man into the mix? And let’s face it, with your bad luck, a bad man is probably all you’re going to catch from the dating pond. You know one thing though – you sure could use a good, hard shag!

It’s been a while since you left your ex. That lying, cheating scumbag wasn’t worth the words that came out of his mouth – all empty promises and pathetic lies. You can’t be bothered with a man. You don’t want all that hassle in your life. Why not do what I did? Why not check out adult fun?

We’ve all been at the receiving end of a scumbag’s lies… Don’t be thinking you’re anything too special. I’ve dated even the ugliest of guys and they’ve ended up being just as much of a failure in the boyfriend department as the really hot ones. So I decided that love for was for suckers. Adult dating was the way forward. Meet them, drink with them, laugh with them, screw them, kick them out the door, never worry about them again. There’s no need to pick up his socks from all over your bedroom floor on a Saturday afternoon, and you’ll never need to pay his mobile phone bill because he couldn’t afford to this month. No, no – there’s none of that.

Only if you play by the rules…

If you want no strings attached, go get no strings attached. Don’t expect to change his mind or make him believe that you’re ‘the one’… It’s not going to happen. You’re never going to change his mind. You’re not his ‘one’, and even if you were, did you really believe you’d be persuading your ‘one’ that he should be with you?

No, didn’t think so.

Think of these men like cheap handbags. You know the ones I mean – the ones you buy to go with that one outfit for that one special occasion. It doesn’t matter if it breaks because you paid barely anything for it and you don’t even like it that much anyway. It just goes with that outfit you had to wear that night.

Who cares if these guys break? You paid barely anything for them – there’s been no emotional investment. You have your wicked way with them and kick them out when you’re done. No need for breakfast at Tiffany’s or tears because he didn’t call. You didn’t really want him to call. You don’t need him to call, you have another date with a buff fireman later on tonight anyway…

You’ll be surprised at empowering adult dating and casual sex feels. You’re in control and you are i charge! It’s probably the first time you’ve ever been in charge in any relationship. EVER. So why not make full use of it? Let the moment take you where you need it to go and then move onto the next one. Empowerment is the best feeling about it!